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Living Out Loud


Carol here,

Living Out Loud

This morning, that phrase, living out loud hit me while catching a James Taylor and Carole King special on public television. Talk about a flashback — it was the ultimate soul food. But as an almost-74-year-old, I didn't find myself longing for the "good old days." I found myself celebrating the present. I became deeply aware of exactly where I am right now, and how every single shift I have made to my life has brought me to this exact moment.

Lean in, this is where it gets good.

What I know about myself so far:

  • I've always been a leader — I'm the oldest of seven

  • I've been a bit of a rule breaker, a true '70s child

  • I love to laugh, and I love putting a smile on someone else's face

  • I know that small changes can change everything

  • I was built to show up for people

So, what the heck is my message today? Good question. Reading back over that list, I realize it's really just proof that I'm an optimist — glass half full, every time.

I began writing this morning because of music that inspired me to be present and open to my what. And I wanted to share that with you.

I say: get curious about yourself. Find a moment, grab a pen and a piece of paper, and jot down your what.

Why? Because those words on the paper don't just remind you who you are — they prove it.

Come as you are, and leave a little different. And I did.

Ready to find your what? I'd love for you to join me. Just click the link below, or head to my website and click the Events tab — you'll find all the dates and times for my October Third Act workshops waiting for you there.

 Coach Carol